Mediation
Mediation offers a more private, practical way to resolve divorce and family law matters while keeping important decisions in your hands.
Keep Control of What Comes Next
Whether you are ordered by the Court or agreeing voluntarily, mediation is a viable method of dispute resolution that assists clients in settling their case on their own terms. Mediation allows for both parties to retain control over their future rather than leaving it up to the Court.
With over 25 years of experience practicing family law in 2 different states, Anita brings a rare dual perspective: she understands the mediator’s neutral role and the attorney’s duty to advocate and protect their client. That insight allows Anita to guide negotiations strategically and with empathy. In doing so, she helps couples reach workable and well-considered resolutions for themselves and their family.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is mediation?
Mediation is a confidential process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) helps you and the other party communicate, negotiate, and work toward a mutually acceptable resolution without the need for a trial.
Depending on your family’s circumstances, you may meet in separate rooms (or virtual breakout rooms), with the mediator moving between the two, or everyone may meet together if that approach is likely to be productive.
Mediation is often a more efficient and cost-effective way to resolve disputes while allowing you to remain in control of the outcome rather than leaving important family decisions in the Court’s hands.
Half days vs full days vs 2-hour blocks
Anita offers mediation in half-day (4-hour), full-day (8-hour), or two-hour sessions over the course of a few days or weeks. While half- and full-day mediations are the traditional approach in Texas, many people find that shorter sessions reduce overwhelm, minimize decision fatigue, and allow time for you to thoughtfully consider the important decisions that need to be made.
Mediation does not have to resolve every issue to be successful. Whether it results in a complete agreement or serves to narrow the remaining issues in your case, mediation can significantly reduce the time, cost, and stress of resolving your divorce or custody dispute.
Anita mediates cases involving parties represented by attorneys as well as individuals who are representing themselves.
What are the possible outcomes of mediation?
If you reach a full agreement, Anita will prepare a Mediated Settlement Agreement (MSA) that reflects the terms of your agreed settlement. Once the MSA is signed by you and your spouse, the MSA is legally binding and serves as the foundation for the resulting Final Order in your case.
If you reach agreements on only some issues, Anita will prepare a partial MSA. Those agreed-upon terms are also legally binding and irrevocable. Any remaining issues can be resolved through additional negotiation after the mediation or, if necessary, by the Court.
How much does mediation cost?
Anita’s rate for mediation is $400/hour ($200 per side).
The overall cost is entirely dependent on how long your mediation takes.
Unlike other mediators, Anita wants you to resolve your case with or without her. Therefore, Anita does not charge a cancelation fee if you and your spouse/ex are able to reach an agreement the day before.
Similarly, if you are able to resolve your mediation in 3 hours instead of a full day, you will only be charged for the 3 hours Anita assisted you. Many mediators will charge for the full day even if an agreement is reached quickly.